My experience with overweight people tells me exactly the opposite about eat less and exercise more. Heavier people have been chronically under-eating (dieting) and punishing themselves physically and emotionally. Sure, maybe at some point they have overeaten comfort food. But on the whole, you could even describe these plus size people as having an eating disorder. They don't eat enough because they're always dieting!
Brainwashed Mindset And Cause of Weight Gain
Heavier individuals have a mindset has become chronically stressed from hating themselves, then giving in, and then again, being disgusted with themselves. In order to lose weight, most of them must stop dieting, and start nurturing themselves with by increasing their food intake and LESS exercise, more sleep and forgive themselves for hating their body! Hopefully, eventually eating more food may reset their metabolisms so they are not always starving themselves. But it's almost impossible for that to happen when you see the research what the research shows!
Diet Mindset
The Mindset of a dieter plays into the Law of Attraction – and not in a good way. It’s the mindset of deprivation, frustration, “can’t and should” that invites more misery, deprivation and frustration and stress. And that’s just talking about their CONSCIOUS mindset. There’s the issue of unconscious and subconscious beliefs that are ALSO sabotaging their ability to lose weight and maintain it. And then there's the effect from being abused, humiliated or neglected as a child from birth to six years old that has been described in detail in the ACE Study.
Plus size, larger bodied and heavier people must break free from the pervasive gaslighting and brainwashing that makes you hate your body. You must learn to reject the self-hatred and negative thoughts you hold about your body. You must relearn the focus of your mindset must change to appreciate and nurture your body. You must also break unconscious and subconscious belief patterns that are making your life miserable and learn to make peace with your body and food. Only then will you be able to stop stress eating and eat anything you want, just like your smaller bodied friends.
The bottom line is: Don’t fall for the flawed research that makes you a victim. And enjoy that ice-cream especially in the summer time, because you deserve to nurture yourself, and you’re NOT going to drown!